Can you do an uncontested divorce if spouse is uncooperative?

I’ve been married for 5 years and we have no kids. My wife moved out 6 months ago and did not tell me where she moved to. I suspect she might be living in California with her family. I live here in Raleigh, NC in a house we bought together. Other than the house in joint names, there are no other issues for us to resolve. Can I pursue an uncontested divorce if I can’t locate her to notify her, and what do I do about the joint house? I want to keep it and have been paying the mortgage but I need to get her name off the deed. She’s also on the mortgage and the bank is telling me she needs to cooperate with me refinancing it in order to get her off the title.